Read our guidelines before connecting with members — respectful, privacy-first introductions.
Community Guidelines & Code of ConductHow to connect respectfully within the BMWCA community
DO
Introduce yourself clearly before requesting any contact details.
Mention that your purpose is matrimony when reaching out.
Be patient and respectful — allow families time to discuss and respond.
Accept silence or a polite decline graciously — no pressure, ever.
Keep all conversations private and treat member information with dignity.
DON'T
Repeatedly contact a member who has not responded or has declined.
Share any member's personal details, phone number, or photos with others.
Misrepresent your background, marital status, profession, or intent.
Use this directory for commercial solicitation or any other purpose.
Approach members who have not indicated they are open to matrimony enquiries.
Disclaimer: BMWCA facilitates member visibility as a community service only. All interactions are strictly between members. BMWCA bears no responsibility for any communication, outcome, or dispute arising from member-to-member contact made through this directory. By proceeding, you agree to conduct yourself in accordance with these guidelines and the values of our community.
